Did Amber have any idea it was going to happen?
"Amber had no clue. She always had suspicions that I was going to propose in some big way. She once thought it was at a show with The Wombats or a Broadside show – a band that I featured in the playlists I made her when we started dating. But for whatever reason, she overlooked Riot Fest."
How did you get Mat Kerekes involved?
"Well, that is a funny story. Mat is one of my favourite artists of all time. Between Citizen, The Flats and his solo work, there hasn't been a song that I did not enjoy. Luna And The Wild Blue Everything is in my personal top 10 albums of all time. And, of course, I had his music in the playlists that I would make for Amber. When I saw that he was playing Riot Fest, I knew that it would be amazing to propose there, but perfect if I could get help from Mat. So, like any normal person, I blocked my now-fiancée on Twitter and tweeted Mat every day asking him to DM me and help with the proposal. After about a month of my annoying tweets, I got a DM from May saying 'Sup' and we worked on the plan from there. I talked to him after the fact and he thought I was just a spam bot so he ignored my tweets for a while. Since then I can actually call Mat a friend, along with his brother Chris and Jacob Sigman who plays keys for Mat on tour."
Will you be having a punk-rock wedding to keep the theme going?
"Since the proposal, we both decided to not have a wedding in the traditional sense, but instead just have a reception/party to celebrate with our friends and family from all over. Since COVID we’ve had more time to think about everything, and how we want to celebrate as Mr and Mrs when we go the courthouse and officially get married. I would love to have Mat play a set, or somehow get Tigers Jaw, Broadside and blink-182 involved. Basically a 'concert wedding' because that just feels fitting.
"We initially wanted to do that idea on 11/11/21, but with the pandemic we plan to at least go to the courthouse on 11/11/22, if we can’t have the concert wedding reception. Also, fun fact for the end of the interview: before Amber moved in, our relationship was long distance, from Jersey to Massachusetts. So every night at 11:11 I would text Amber to make a wish. Sometimes I still say it to her when we’re laying in bed getting ready to sleep. Hence the date 11/11."